FAMILY relations

FAMILY SHOULD TAKE CARE OF YOU,
                                BUT, YOU MUST TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY...!!!


suppose, A family comprises of a brother, sister, mother and father..
whenever this family attends a marriage, FATHER introduces the family... in such a way that, his family is the best one among all the families attending that marriage.. No doubt that even a FATHER tends to debate with the colleagues for supporting his family...

Now lets get to home,
FATHER says, have you observed Mr. X's son and daughter, how kind they were, you are nothing compared with them.. you should learn something from them!! is this the way i have made you brought up??
with this, Sister and Brother felt guilty and expressed both in thier own style..
SISTER got angry!, but she didnt expressed to father, went aside.. couldnt do much than crying in her room..!
BROTHER slammed the door and got out for a while.. skipping his dinner..!
mighty MOTHER, enters supporting on children side and talks to father, father then realises that he became bit rash and he feels now guilty, and also feels that doesn't he possess any rights to teach the children..??

Why does the father has created this much of scene?? does he created??
nope, the scene was created by the children..!!

absolutely, because father wants to teach something, but the young children were not ready to listen anything, because the feel that they are innocent.. Here the children must learn from his father that,
yet he was having anger inside, he supported his children at marriage,
yet he was having love inside, he showed anger on his children suggesting for a change..
FATHER wants to

RECESSION......

Today our Labour and Employement minister, Mallikarjun Kharge declared in Lok Sabha that nearly 2 lakh (200,000) engineers and 1.32 lakh (132,000) diploma holders were unemployed in 2007. He also said Government is planning to create 15 million jobs by the end of 11th Plan in public and private sectors. This year the number of unemployed engineers and diploma holders is likely to increase heavily due to current economic recession. In 2003, there were 82,000 unemployed engineers in India and in 2005 the number rose to 1.12 lakh (112,000) and due to IT book it fell to 48,000 in 2006. This is really  a shocking news for engineers of India. Also, this figure has put a question mark on the quality of education in engineering colleges of India.

Let’s discuss one case study of a 16 years old 10th standard student of India.

I’m 16 years old studying in 10th class. My parents are pressuring me to be an Engineer it’s not even funny, lol. I try to reason with them and I really don’t understand why they think engineers are such “god-like” people, lol. I mean, I really love history and arts and can work well with money and finance and I like economics so I’m really interested in careers either in arts or commerce. I tell them all the facts of how I love these subjects, I tell them I love to do it, I’m good at it (I hate physics, chemistry. They don’t interest me), and I’ll be a lot better at something I enjoy. My parents say that getting an engineering degree will make my future secure. What the fuck?

This is common problem in Indian families. Parents put unnecessary pressure on their kids into studying and getting high careers. They want to make their sons or daughters doctor, lawyer, scientist, engineer so that they will earn high salary and have a top job in future. Now a day engineering degree has become the obvious choice of Indian middle class because of ever rising salaries and comfortable work environment for the engineers but in my opinion, parents need to see the interest and dreams of their children instead of forcing them to chase some mad rush of joining IITs, IIMs or NITs to become eligible for big MNC’s. If we allow our children to go for studying in which field they like they can do wonders.
There are some other reasons behind 2 lakh unemployed engineers in India.

• Poor Quality of Engineering Education in private colleges and old Government Colleges — According to latest report only 25 % engineering graudates in India are employable, this means they can work in the industry and utilise their engineering knowledge. This is because of poor quality of education in engineering colleges. Government should take some steps to improve the quality of education in Indian colleges. Also the syllabus should be made par to the industry standards.
• Entrance tests for Engineering colleges — Most of the students who join private engineering colleges have around 50 to 60% marks in their 12th standard. They also need not to face any entrance test due to plenty of private engineering colleges in Inida. Such students lack basic knowledge of English and Mathematics & Science. What should we expect from these students? Believe me more than 75 % engineers are not fit for industry. But we should not completely blame this 75 % engineers. Most of these students are forced by their parents to pursue career in Engineering.

CONFIDENCE

Its True that, Nothing is greater than Confidence..
It is the confidence, which can conquer the Greatest heights..!!
and Confidence is in every creature possessing in this Earth..
in assistance We need to build it upon Ourselves..!!

Aim to the Star, at least You can reach the Tree...!!
Best Of Luck..!!